[This is a repost from The new site Girls Being Girls, which will be delving into becoming a better & more feminine woman. Please come join us in our efforts!]
Western civilization has steered you wrong. Look at television; every sitcom is based on the strong independent woman & the bumbling fool of a man she has to mother & mollycoddle. Every commercial is the same: silly guy with the smart woman with all of the solutions.
Women are being taught that men are hapless nincompoops who need a strong guiding hand, when in reality the opposite is true. Not of course that women are nincompoops, but the strong guiding hand should come from men in the natural order of things. Women are naturally happier when lead by a confident, competent male.
The problem is that strong, confident, competent males are difficult to find because for the past 60 or so years, society has been systematically discouraging & eliminating all masculine behavior. As society became more & more feminized, so have the males, either by persuasion, by force or by prescription drugs in childhood.
Males naturally risk & risk is dangerous whether it is monetary or physical. Little boys play rough, climb trees, jump their bikes, have dirt clod fights, play swords with 2x4s, etc. And yes, there are tom-girls that also participate in this behavior, but we are talking in generalities & tom-girls are outliers. They are the exception to the rule.
Women urge caution & seek security. Even the so called “strong independent woman” urges caution. As society is feminized, you see more & more laws enacted. You see more monitoring of private behavior. More cameras at intersections. Women are outraged by a word, horrified by a boy’s “violence”, or demanding “equality” where there are no equals.
So women have created generation after generation of “yes dear” men. Men who have had the masculine beaten out of them since birth. Boys who get in trouble at school if they get fidgety sitting in a classroom for hours on end & are put on medication so that they can “concentrate”. Men who get called up to HR for complimenting a woman’s dress.
Since manly behavior has been discouraged in men, women have stepped up to take on the strong role. As men are more feminized, women have become more masculine. A reversal of the natural order of genders has happened. This reversal has resulted in the breakdown of the traditional family.
The problem with strong women & feminized men is that they are not attractive to each other. The feminine attracts the masculine & the masculine attracts the feminine, so when there is a role reversal, there is a loss of attraction on both sides. It is the biggest tragedy of today’s world & the cause of all of societal woes.
If a female is having trouble sticking to a relationship, it is generally because there is initial attraction and everything is great, but then the female will usually “break her alpha”
Yours is not a unique story;
girl meets alpha
girl loves alpha
girl sees room for improvement in alpha
alpha acquiesces to change in hopes of not being nagged
alpha senses he is no longer in charge
beta is unhappy
beta emotionally checks out of the relationship
girl sees spark is gone
girl is unhaaappppy
girl meets alpha [recursive]
The solution to this problem is in you. If you allow your man to be a man, you will be more attracted to him. It is a simple solution, but it is not easy to do. By finding your inner, hidden femininity, you allow your man to express his inner, hidden masculinity. Since the masculine attracts the feminine and vice versa, you both will be more attracted to the other.
Finding your femininity is a long slow process, but it will reap huge benefits. Through femininity, you will find true peace of mind & happiness. The basic steps towards becoming a better woman are: look nice, soften & sweeten your personality, respect & serve your man, & enthusiastically engage in sex. Most importantly, do not nag, belittle, or snipe at your man.
I’m not going to go into detail on the basic steps of becoming a better woman in this post because it is a long involved process, but future posts will be devoted to this subject. The first step is to acknowledge that there is a problem & resolve to fix the problem. You will be incredibly happier & so will your man.